Bondage Basics and How to introduce it in your Relationship

I will not tolerate a disobedient lover and you shouldn’t either.  If you want to be in control, then gently introduce Bondage techniques with a trusted lover so you can be in control and allow your partner to become submissive in their role. Being the submissive helps to enhance your partner’s sexual pleasure.  Let’s not confuse bondage with sadomasochism (S&M), they can go hand in hand but sadomasochism is a subset of Bondage.  Right now, our focus is pure bondage and the dominant and submissive traits that are privileged in this passionate sexual play.

Pure Bondage activities don’t include humiliation, pain or torture as the S&M activities introduce. 

Typical bondage activities include one or more of the following activities:

•  Binding body parts such as arms and legs
•  Spreading out your partners legs and restraining them to fully expose the vagina, anus or penis
•  Spreading out your partners arms to restrict them is common in the act of bondage, especially when exposing breasts
• Binding restrained to some object such as a large table, a bed,  or a large piece of furniture
• Suspending the restrained partner from the ceiling.
•  Restricting the mobility of your partner by using a corset, or other articles that bind an individual’s legs together and make it difficult for them to move. .
•  Wrapping your partner in soft, elastic material to restraining the entire body. This form of bondage is also known as mummification.

Build trust with your lover and your lover will let you take control.  The real act of bondage includes ropes, cuffs, restraints, or bandages.  During the period of restraint, your partner should look beautiful with her vagina or breasts exposed, penis exposed or buttocks spread and exposed.  This allows the transfer of power to the other individual which heightens the sexual experience during bondage activities. The feeling of helplessness is exciting to the submissive partner participating in the act of Bondage and the aesthetics of your partner being restrained heavily weighs on sexual drive.

People regard bondage as safe and do establish rules during Bondage play to enhance trust and ensure the most passionate and rewarding sexual heights that can be achieved.  If you establish these rules and use safe words when you play, you should be able to continuously enjoy acts of Bondage and truly connect with your partner on passionate and emotional levels you would have otherwise never known.